In Islam, marriage is a holy tie built upon love, mercy, and mutual understanding. Yet, every marriage is accompanied by challenges. At times, these problems can bring to mind the idea of separation or divorce. Though in Islam, divorce is not forbidden, it is, however the most dislike lawful act. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:
“Of all the lawful acts, the most detestable to Allah is divorce.”
(Sunan Abu Dawood)
For those who want to save their marriage and avert divorce, So, Islam gives so much information, not least the power of Dua to stop divorce and save marriage in seeking Allah’s assistance to restore peace and harmony in the relationship.
Dua to stop divorce and save marriage
Dua is a form of worship which connects a believer to Allah, seeking His guidance, mercy, and intervention. But when marital discord sets in, turning to Allah with sincere supplications may open doors to reconciliation and healing. So, the following duas, derived from the Qur’an and Sunnah, can recite to stop divorce and restore marital harmony.
Powerful Duas to Save a Marriage
- Dua for Love and Harmony Between Spouses
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration:
Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyatina qurrata a’yunin wa aj‘alna lil-muttaqina imama.
Translation:
“Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”
(Surah Al-Furqan: 74)
This dua seeks Allah’s blessings for love, peace, and understanding in the marital relationship.
- Dua to Bring Hearts Together
وَأَلَّفَ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِهِمْ
Transliteration:
Wa allafa bayna qulubihim.
Translation:
“And He made their hearts love each other.”
(Surah Aal-e-Imran: 103)
If this dua is recited with true intentions, then it can heal any problematic relationship and bring mutual love between the spouses.
- Dua to Safeguard from Shaytan’s influence
رَبِّ أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ هَمَزَاتِ الشَّيَاطِينِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ رَبِّ أَنْ يَحْضُرُونِ
Transliteration:
Rabbi a’udhu bika min hamazat al-shayatin wa a’udhu bika rabbi an yahdurun.
Translation:
“My Lord, I seek refuge in You from the incitements of the devils, and I seek refuge in You, my Lord, lest they be present with me.”
(Surah Al-Mu’minun: 97-98)
Shaytan loves to whisper to the wives as well. So, reciting this dua will save the marriage from evil influence.
Effective Measures to Rescue a Marriage
Apart from dua, practical measures must be implemented to overcome the marital differences:
Firstly , Open Communication: Share with your partner honestly and respectfully the real issues and problems.
Counseling: Engage trusted members of the family or Islamic counselors to facilitate and direct.
Patience: The marriage requires a lot of patience and tolerance, most especially during such trying moments.
Salat al-Hajat: Offer two units of Salat al-Hajat, and implore Allah to save the marriage.
Thankfulness: Focus on your spouse’s good qualities and appreciate him or her.
Blaming. Avoid blaming; instead, find solutions.
Istikhara for Guidance
If the issue is still not resolved, then it is time to perform the Salat al-Istikhara. But this time, you will seek God’s guidance in making that best decision. This can steer you toward what is truly best for your marriage as well as your overall wellness.
The Power of Forgiveness
Forgiveness always plays a key role in any successful marriage. And as the Qur’an claims:
“.Let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.”
(Surah An-Nur: 22)
Forgiveness of your spouse and forgiveness for your mistakes can make a way for healing and reconciliation.
Conclusion
Dua is a powerful tool for healing and saving a marriage. So , with the help of Allah, by reciting these supplications, and by taking practical steps, couples can work towards regaining peace and love in their relationship. Remember that marriage is a journey that requires effort, patience, and reliance on Allah.
May Allah guide all couples facing difficulties, protect their marriages, and bless them with happiness and tranquility. Ameen.
